Does It Matter If She Is Attracted To You Or Not?
Sometimes men come to me with questions where the answer doesn’t matter but the fact that you are even asking the question does. For instance, when you are going out with a woman it doesn’t matter if she is attracted to you are not as long as she is giving you what you want.
Yet, time after time men write in to me wanting to know if there is a way to tell if she is attracted to me or not. What these types of questions usually mean about the man asking them is that he fears rejection a lot.
The reason why this is so is because if he didn’t fear rejection he would already be at a point in the relationship where it wouldn’t matter if she was attracted to him as would already be getting what he wants or she would have let him in know in many different ways that she isn’t interested. Instead he is in limbo usually somewhere close to the friend zone as she either is waiting for you to make a move and/or content with the two of you being friends.
Of course, that’s assuming she even knows who you are as many times men ask this question about women who they only saw looking at them. In either case, if you truly want to know if a woman is attracted to you or not, you must make an attempt at escalating the relationship to the next level.
Otherwise, her attraction for you really doesn’t matter because your relationship with her is where it is at now with or without the attraction. If the idea of risking rejection is greater than your desire to figure out if she is attracted to you or not, perhaps that is what you need to figure out how to take care of.
Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.
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